Saturday, 3 March 2012

WHY??? :(

Hello Dear Bloggers!! :) Okay, so this post is definitely NOT about female ranting... Rather, it is an honest question that i often ask myself whenever i read about atrocities against people, especially women, in the newspapers or on the television. Some days back, a fellow blogger, The Delhi Fashion Blogger, wrote a post which inspired me to write something similar to what she wrote! :)
We all know that in the recent weeks, the newspapers were littered with the news of rape incidents. The victims, sadly, also included girls not more that 16 or 18 years of age.
It will be absolutely excruciating for me to even imagine the pain and suffering that those girls went through and the scars on their hearts which will NEVER fade away with time... I often ponder as to what kind of people are we living with?? Our fellow human beings... What kind of a person can cause such harm and do such horrible things to a woman? How can he possibly live with himself after committing such a blunder? HOW?? AND WHY? :(
"All men are the same" --- We happen to hear this a LOT. In fact, when i am myself frustrated with someone who belongs to the opposite sex, even i think the same. I guess, reality is far different. When in fact -- All men are NOT the same. Some not only love their women and care about them, but also respect their individuality and their being. Such kind of men are what you call REAL MEN! Being chauvinistic and suppressing women is NOT AT ALL a proof of their manhood. Far from it.
It's not that it's always the women who suffer. Definitely not. Men also suffer. But comparatively, the women suffer more. After all, male fetuses are not killed after an amniocentesis [ A test to know the sex of the child ] It is mostly, the female gender who get harassed and raped.
Forget the rape incidents, we all know about BABY FALAK who was merely what?? Just 2 years old?? She was brutally battered and was on the verge of dying when she was brought to AIIMS. Doesn't this make you sick?? It surely makes me SICK! How can someone be so ruthless with a child? I know the 14-year old girl who is responsible for this barbarism was herself frustrated because she was entangled in the shackles of prostitution, but that frustration does not give her a right to almost kill an innocent gift from God. How can people be so inhuman? So much so for the Right to Equality. I am not saying that women are perfect and it's only the men who make women suffer. Sometimes it is the other way round too. I request you all not to be judgmental just because the tone of my post is a bit woman-centric. I am speaking for all the people who suffer irrespective of their gender.
Because i am a law enthusiast, i often read many case studies. The one that i want to mention is the Aruna Shanbaug Case. I am sure most of you are aware of what happened to Miss Shanbaug. Just because she filed a complaint against a fellow colleague in her hospital, she paid and is still paying a terrible price for it. She was not only raped, but sodomized, beaten up and hence, was left to be brain dead and cheated out of life. How barbaric. :X She was a beautiful nurse, who had her future planned out with a handsome doctor fiance by her side. Little did she know while planning it all, that she will NEVER EVER be able to live the life she wanted for herself. The scoundrel who was responsible for all of this was not even booked for rape!! I mean, seriously!!!
Such kind of incidents make you realize that the world we live in, comprises of SUCH sick people, who don't even deserve to be called people, but animals!



It saddens me whenever i hear of such incidents... It saddens me whenever i think about their pain and suffering... It saddens me that such things happen and such people exist amongst us. Moreover, it makes me wonder --- That could have been ME or as a matter of fact ANY ONE OF US!



I thank God that i have such a wonderful family and camaraderie beside me. But that still does not change my question ---- WHY??? :(

Xoxo.
Surabhi. [Butterfly... :)]

P.S. --- I am sorry for a late post. I was not well and was busy studying so could not come up with any post sooner. And also i am sorry for not publishing an OOTD post. Next time -- FOR SURE. As far as my mini-giveaway is concerned that i mentioned in my last post, the moment i reach 75 followers i will host a giveaway! Right now i have 65 followers. 10 more to go. :)


115 comments:

manya said...

Very nice post!I totally support your views!

mitchinheels said...

Awesome post darling!!world is just like that.i don't know if one day it will change,i really hope so.I totally agree with u.its so sad,and its so unfair.
however,maybe we can help by sending a little prayer!!

Mitch,xx

Soumi said...

Yeah,it's the same old story everywhere(The high profile Park street rape case and the comparatively less known one at Katwa,to mention a few). I sometimes get so angry that I fly into a rage and feel like crushing everything to death that comes my way!
Anyway,best of luck for your exams! DO participate in Memorable March if you wish. Take care. Love.

TheDannyBoy said...

You have now realised that there is a certain part of the population that is still barbaric, But su, the field of education we have picked, gives us opportunities to spread awareness and to help those who have suffered at the hands of these people!! And its not just about rape...what i am witnessing now is that domestic violence is also a big problem!! I, with some of my friends, recently helped a lady from a village who was set aflame by her husband!! We witness these cases daily!!

Rv* sharma said...

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dian ajeng maharani said...

hi sweetie,
i love this post. in my country, rape happens everywhere and everytime even in public transportation, and it makes me sick and afraid. i watch news on tv about woman got rape by stranger in the middle of the night when she was on bus and it feels like "how come?"
i hope things be better and people respect women.

Life is a fairytale said...

IKR! :( Barbaric morons :( I don't know how they get the heart to be so cruel..do they have a heart in first place?
I second every thought of yours :)
Amazing write up sweetie :)
As awesome as you are :)
Haha good luck with the giveaway :P BTW, where is the OOTD? Me want 8)
Love,
Namita <3

CATGIRL !! said...

God!
rape, sodomy, vegetable state...
the one story of 14 yr old raping a 2 yrs old..is sooooooooooooooo painful/////oh GOD!!

Ancia said...

This is an honest post.
Sadly there will always be people somewhere to abuse others.
I wish there was a way to help, but i can't image what could stop it forever.

Fictitious Fashion said...

hmmmmmmmm.. Very true dear... u knw wat I feel? I want to keep a 'GuN' in my purse.. srslly.. if I had the freedom to shoot someone right in his freaking head wen he passes cheap comments.. haha.. I knww.. bt dats me.. N i want to stand in groups wid girls.. n stare at a man's A** like he does to us.. y can't we do it??? COS WE ARE CIVIL and we know the difference between RIGHT and WRONG!! shameless creatures.. I'm not saying that all men are the same.. bt those who do such thngs.. are #$%@#@
and if they are so perv then they should leave a 2year old and satisfy themselves with non-living things rather than destroying humanity!!!!!!!

pheww... Nice post :)

and abt ur comments.. Awwwwwww.. Thank you so much dear.. N I used to play holi till school.. now I don't .. last year my frnds pushd me into playing it bt this time I'm not even stopping out of my house!! haha.. so same pinch :D

☻Fida Bosu☺ said...

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Tone-Lise said...

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Hugs<3

Fictitious Fashion said...

Hi hon.. hahaha.. yes yes.. go gun :P
N ofcourse dear.. I'd love to add your links in my post and facebook.. I'll do it on facebook today.. and maybe after 3-4 days on post? ok? :)

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fashionistas stop said...

aaaaaaaahhh..so that was a great great post.
I think one should carry a pepper spray at the least.
Also, I want to stare them back and say like "what?" but that wouldn't make a difference to them bcz dey r not humans!!
this is a nice post sweety!

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shooting star said...

very touching....!!
what i believe is, first women need to change their own mindset against fellow women...only then will the menfolk change, most of the times....women are party to negative thinking for their own race!!

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Emm said...

4 more to go;)

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Bonnie said...

I hope that this changes -- one day. I think that females need to learn how to work together better rather than be in competition with each other. That would be a good start.

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few unnecessary stuff said...

totally agreed... awesome post dear...how can somebody live without guilt after doing something like this? :(

PRIYANKA D said...

lovely post!! i agree to ur views completely!!! hope it does change some day!! :)

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xoxo

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Phạm Minh Tâm said...

@ Vatinam+
Wish you a good day and full of joy...

Muhammad Israr said...

well, this is the sad reality of our world,,, the problem is that this world is male dominated and hence by default women are the weaker gender... torutring any animal is very painful thing to do, let alone a human being and that too a female... i wonder what kind of mentality these savages have... :(

i am here thru CATGIRL blog and I am follower no. 73 :)
get well soon and best of luck for your results :)

Renisha said...

Hoping for the day when everything changes for good :)
Nice post!

Ms Nyx said...

Hey babe,

It's a very thoughtful and straight from the heart post and I agree with your view. Murder, rape, atrocities against other fellow humans means the person doing it is mentally ill - he/she has gone beyond being human. They can't be justified. Same goes for men or boys who shoot MMS clips and man them public.

I hope you're well now and looking forward for the giveaway.

Love,
Nyx

nitika said...

Ohh gosh.. I remember that Nurse Aruna's case. I guess I had read it in Femina.. It had really left me shocked !! I totally understand your feelings.. Nd I equally feel that whatsoever happens and also with the talks of equality all around the world, women are still the ones who are meant to suffer a lot more than men !! I hope someday this thinking would change..

Till then the most we can do to support this is treat our future generations equally !!

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SkullsBonesAndLoveOfFashion said...

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Deepika said...

there are so many incidents which havent come to the public's knowledge. the ones which have the attention of the media are very very few.

sawan said...

Surabhi, to be really frank - i never intended to read the entire post! some how i stay away from long posts. but I DID read this one. I was unaware of the case history of Aruna Shanbaug though was aware of the court judgement on mercy killing. I had a drop of tear in my eyes reading through the entire post and reading through Aruna's case. what ever that means.

Butterfly... :) said...

Manya --- Thank you so much dear!! :)

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Mitchinheels --- Yeah, i think you are right! And even i hope that the world changes.. FOR BETTER! :) Thank you for appreciating the blog-post!

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Soumi --- There are so many cases. Most of them go unnoticed.. I feel the same rage, anger and frustration too whenever i come across such cases. It makes me sick.
And sure, if have some spare time left i will definitely participate in this wonderful contest of yours!! :)

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Danny Boy --- I realized this a long time back Danny Boy.. It's just that i chose to express my feelings now. Yeah, i hope we can at least help some of these women with our knowledge and choice of field! :)
Domestic Violence is sickening too. Humanity is no more present in each and every human being. Thank you for going through my write-up my best friend!! :D

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Rv* Sharma --- Already following you. And thank you for following me back and appreciating my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Dian Ajeng Maharani --- I hope same dear. I hope the same. It's the same everywhere hon.. Every case astonishes me more and more with it's absurdity! Some people are bastards... That's what they are. i hope they learn to respect women before it gets too late! :( Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Life is Fairytale --- Thank you so much sugar!! <3 I am glad you liked it. :) And yeah now that i have reached more than 75 followers, i will hosting a giveaway in my next post!! :D Hope you participate. And about the OOTD --- Did not get much time but it will follow the giveaway post, that much i can promise. :D Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

CATGIRL// --- Yeah it is pathetic i know.. :( And dear the 14 year old girl did not rape the 2 year old. She brutally hit the 2 year old and battered her so badly that she had to go through several surgeries!! :( It is indeed sickening.
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Ancia --- Yeah dear, i feel the same. I don't think this will ever come to an end. It may reduce of course but it won't vanish that easily.. :(
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Fictitious Fashion --- I know right? I want to do the same.. You know, keep something with me to protect myself from such perverts and then reciprocate to what they say when we pass by.. But we can't steep so low. We are very civilized and that is something they can never be. Those men who do such things are a**holes! That's what they are..
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Fida Bosu --- Thank you dear. And thank you so much for giving me an award and also for tagging me in your tag-o-mania post too!! Will do posts about the same in near future!! :D
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Tone-Lise --- Thank you so much for following me and appreciating my blog. :)
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Fashionistas Stop --- Yeah a pepper spray nowadays is definitely a must! :) And thank you so much for appreciating my blog-post! :) We cannot do not because then there'll be no difference between us and them. You are so right. :) Already checked out your new post and commented on it too dear! :D
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Nina --- Yeah all we can do is hope and at some point if given a chance to contribute to make world a better place we should go for it. I already follow your blog dear. And i love it. :)
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Shooting Star --- You know, you are so right.. It's not just the men who need to improve but the women need to improvise too. Only then will there be a chance at a better world.
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Stylish By Nature --- Thank you for appreciating my blog-post! :) I am now following you on Bloglovin! :D
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Emm --- Hehe!! Thank you for following dear! :D I am glad! Finally reached 75 followers and more! ;)
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Bulbulvish --- Thank you so much dear. And don't thank me! I found your blog really magnificent. Loved it in fact! <3 Waiting eagerly for your next post and yeah, thank you for following me back! ;)
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Bonnie --- You are so right girl! I hope women do that!! :)
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Few Unnecessary Stuff --- I know right? :( It's so sad and upsetting.. :(
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

PRIYANKA D --- I hope the same.. :) Thank you.
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Muhammad Israr --- Thank you so much Muhammad for following me and for your wishes. :) I fail to understand the same.. Their mentality, i mean!! :( I glad you found my blog, took out to read and liked it! :)
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Renisha --- Thank you so much. And i hope the same. :)
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Ms Nyx --- Thank you so much Ms Nyx. :) Yeah, i know.. I guess at some point in life, God makes them pay double the price of their sins.. Or, i hope he does! :(
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Nitiks --- I so damn agree with you dear!! :( Women do suffer a lot more than men.. And Nurse Aruna's case had left me baffled too. I was astonished.. I cannot even begin to imagine what she went through.. :( I hope things get better too. :) I voted for you in that contest of yours. :)
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Style and Sein --- Thank you so much for liking and appreciating my blog and following me too. :) I am following you back right away! :D
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

SkullsBonesAndLoveOfFashion --- Thank you so much dear for liking the post and following me back!! :)

Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Irene Buffa --- Thank you so much dear. :) Already taken part in your giveaway! ;)
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Deepika --- Yeah most of such cases usually go unnoticed. And it's sad. When the news channels and the newspaper can shine a light over which celebrity is holidaying where then they can surely give importance to such issues too right? :) I hope the situation improves with time.
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Sawan -- Thank you so much Sawan, for taking out time and reading the entire post! I am glad that you liked it and it somehow managed to move you. The Supreme did allow passive Euthanasia in her case but the nurses are not giving up. Frankly -- The woman has gone through so much. I think she at least deserves some peace.. I hope the situation improves sooner than later. :( Thank you so much for following me! :)
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Phan Minh Tam --- Thank you. :) And same to you.
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Megha Varshini said...

Its sick to read everyday. people frgt the fact that we are all human beings and get hurt and the fact that you wouldnt like such atrocities against ur family.
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Sam said...

Hi dear, this is such a powerful post, I am so glad you wrote about these serious issues. I completely understand what you're saying because here in SA, we deal with similar issues. People can be really atrocious.

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I hope ur having a gr8 day :)

New post is up <3

Love
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Prabhat Parey said...

Loved it !

Seriously, i too want this world to change. Girls should be treated with respect. This post touched me. A true and honest post it was.

I support you.

And m really glad to hear your views about men.

Plus, you write well, girl. Carry it forward. Heartily wishes for you.

Hope your health is all good now.

Take care :)

pavani reddy said...

gr8 post surabhi..totally agree with u..

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Jyotirupa Mishra said...

If only the answer was that easy... :(

Fictitious Fashion said...

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Love you.. N thank you once again :)

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Butterfly... :) said...

Megha --- Yeah i agree with you totally!! :( Well, the world is NOT what we imagine it to be is all i can say...

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Megha --- Yeah i agree with you totally!! :( Well, the world is NOT what we imagine it to be is all i can say...

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Sam --- Oh! It's the same throughout the world babe!! As sad as it is but it is what is the truth! :(

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Stylish By Nature -- -Checking it out right away!! :)

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Prabhat Bhaiya --- I am so glad you liked this blog-post bhaiya! :) And yes, i will go forward! I have miles to go!! :) Keep visiting!

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Pavani Reddi --- Thank you dear. :)

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Miss Iffa --- Thank you dear! :) Checking out your blog right away! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

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Jyo --- Yeah.. :(

Xoxo.
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Shubhangi --- Checking it out right away! :)

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Akanksha --- Thank you!! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Jen..The Butterfly Effect said...

Your thoughts totally reflect mine! So true ..Are some men so inhumane? Such psychos really need to be put on an overdose of sedative drugs once and for all!I mean,honestly,it's better to kill the root and then not worry about the problems they stem from!!

Awesomely written though :)

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Butterfly... :) said...

Jen --- Thank you so much girl!! :) And i so damn agree with you!! They should be killed once and for all.
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Valerie --- Thank you. :) Yeah checking it out right away! <3
Thank you for commenting on my blog-post! <3

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

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Agam said...

Amazing post..there are two things that hurt me the most in this context..
1) Such incidents have become so rampant (its like everyday waking up and reading something like this) that the society is gradually becoming immune to these..its like OK just another 60 year old raping a young girl or even worse a 13 year old raping a 3-4 year old..it indeed is so barbaric..
2) It may sound so cliche..but the number of cases are just piling up..the judiciary is so slow that by the time the accused is actually punished (if he is) he has enjoyed his life..
Really sad!!
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Raniyal Niyada said...
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Raniyal Niyada said...

sad but very true post... it makes me fell so low when i hear all those news... and we call our self modern when we act so barbaric!! its really shame on us..

take care

niya

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Namita said...

Hey butterfly :) my dear titli..why would I be upset with you???
I didn't saw this post's notification in my blog reader so maybe that is the reason why I didn't comment.
I was wondering why aren't you being seen anywhere :)
My bad surabhi I didn't come and checked myself.
Hope everything is fine :) Its been a while you posted anything.

:) Thanks and loads of love :)
Never ever u dare to think that I forgot you okie :)

Namita :)

Fictitious Fashion said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.. n aren't u jst too sweet to mention ur love? hahha :D Love you tooooo girl!!! as always.. ur d Best :D <3
Thank you so much for everything.. like everything :)
N I can't wait wait to see ur wedneesday post :D
n btw.. hw did ur xams go?

Fictitious Fashion said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.. n aren't u jst too sweet to mention ur love? hahha :D Love you tooooo girl!!! as always.. ur d Best :D <3
Thank you so much for everything.. like everything :)
N I can't wait wait to see ur wedneesday post :D
n btw.. hw did ur xams go?

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Emm said...

recently... a lady caused her attacker some real injury and I felt like saying...way to goooooooo!

Kavi said...

I cried reading this! :( Its so sad to read such news and really makes you wonder "what if it was someone you knew". I can't even imagine the pain these victims go through. Even if the bastards are given Capital Punishment (which, will probably take forever in a country like India) what then? How can a soul that has been destroyed be redeemed?

There are times I support non-violence. I believe even the most evil minds can be reformed by soul searching. But then, there are times like these, when I want nothing but those pathetic assholes to be castrated in public & die a slow death.

Jessille said...

hey dear,,,its totally pathetic...and really symphatic things that can be happened to girl...so a pity the raper acts innocent...
i love ur post..its so touching and make us realize to be careful and care to another
btw mabbe we can fllw each other??hope we can :)
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thanks

Butterfly... :) said...

Pretty Quirky --- Yeah sure!! Why not?? :)

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Agam --- Yeah i know. :( It would be lovely if you follow me back.:)

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Raniyal --- Yeah dear. Shame on us. :(

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Namita --- It's okay!! I am relieved now. I really thought i did something wrong unknowingly. That is why i asked you directly!! :) I only post twice a month now! :D Second post coming up soon!! :)
Thank you for commenting on my post.

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Fictitious Fashion --- Hehe!! Love you and your blog!! <3
Thank you for commenting on my post.

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Ioana-Carmen --- Thank you so much dear!! Sure we can follow each other!! :)
Thank you for commenting on my post.

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Catherine --- Thank you so much Catherine!! <3 Will definitely follow you back! :)
Thank you for commenting on my post.

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Fabrizia --- Thank you so much dear! :) Yeah we can definitely follow each other! Will be taking part in your giveaway too if it's open internationally! :D
Thank you for commenting on my post.

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Emm --- Yeah i read about it!! :) And i loved it!! :D It's time somebody caused those barbaric morons some injury! ;)
Thank you for commenting on my post.

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Kavi --- I so damn agree with you! Such jackasses deserve to be publicly castrated!! :X Hell, they deserve something worst than what they do.. :X I am touched by your response.
Thank you for commenting on my post.

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Butterfly... :) said...

Jessille --- Yeah dear.. It does. :) I am touched that you liked my post so much!! Of course, we can follow each other!! :)
Thank you for commenting on my post.

Xoxo.
Surabhi.

Fictitious Fashion said...

HI dear.. :) Where is your promised new post, wednesday wala? :(

Anyways.. My new contest is up :)
Take a look here
Prize would be a Forever21 pendant necklace :)

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chp_dzn said...

A very good and true post. It's very sad to see what is happening currently! Don't know how these people have no feelings or conscience :(



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